Let us talk about Screaming
Have you got some body around you
who just all of a sudden screams.
When someone always shouts and screams near you
- What is your feeling?
-What do you think?
- What do you do?
When you are near some one who screams
- Possibly you may become annoyed
and even loose your temper.
- Possible you may think you like more
to take distance from that person.
- And it is possible that you decide
to get away from him.
I would better get out of this place, the screaming
of this child really makes me mad.
It is much important that you treat others
just as you wish to be treated.
If you do not like that others scream out around you,
you must not also scream when others are around.
Stop it! you make me loose my patience
by such screaming of yours.
There are a few occasions when
you possibly may wish to scream.
One is that possibly a thing does not take
place according to your desire and
pleasure. Or that your parents
say "No!" in reply to your wish.
Or that they ask you to perform a job
which you are not inclined to do.
Therefore, probably you imagine that
you can make your father and
mother change their decision
by your screaming.
But shouting and screaming causes
the worsening of things.
It is time to go to bed!
But I do not want to sleep. Perhaps if I
scream possibly it may help changing
the determination of my mother and
she allows me to remain awake for a while.
When everything does work according
to your desire never at all shout
instead do the following:
- Remember never always try to get your
word and say have a superior position.
This is neither fair for you, nor is
it just for your companions.
- If you do not agree with your parents in a
certain matter, talk to them kindly and
politely. Give them proper time and
respite to think about your requirement.
Possibly this may become the cause
of their change of mind about requirement.
But if this does not happen then never
insist. Your insistence only becomes
the reason of your dismay and their nervousness.
Perhaps mother is right and I need a bit of rest.
It is possible that your screaming be for the reason
that you require attention. You want your parents
to attend to you. And possibly you may wish that
they spend their time over you. But you can not
attract the attention, which is your object, by screaming.
Father spend all his time upon my younger
brother. If I scream a bit, perhaps he
may also attend a little to me.
If you need and require attention never
scream. Instead do the following :
- Tell your father and mother politely
that you need a little attention.
-If your parents are not in a positioning to attend
immediately to you, give them a little while and
chance to be able to attribute some of their
time to you. Thereby have patience till
such time comes. And do not be the
cause of disturbance of your father
and mother during this time.
What a nice time I am spending with my father.
The patience was really worthwhile.
You may want to scream because you are hungry
or tired and ill. When your body needs some thing
and is not healthy, possibly you may become
ill tempered and wish to scream. When such
a situation arises you should be careful
and cautious about your body.
- If you are hungry eat a bit of energetic food.
- If you are tired and fatigued have a little rest.
- If you are ill do as your doctor or parents tell you.
Oh I am getting every impatient. Perhaps
If I scream mother might find some thing
to make me busy with.
When you have lost your patience do not
scream. Instead, do the following :
- Keep it in mind that you yourself are responsible
for your activity and this thing does not have
any concern with anyone else.
- Talk to your father and mother and tell them
respectfully that you have lost your
tolerance and ask them to guide you.
- If your father and mother does not attend
to you then try to find a means to make
yourself busy. But before doing that
make sure that your medium selected
is agreeable to your parents as well.
How about a little bit of cycle ridding.
It is a good idea, simultaneously, I would
also ask my friend to come along
and ride the bicycle with me.
It is possible that you may want to scream due to the
termination of your tolerance. Possibly since you are
unable to make yourself busy in some thing you
imagine that in this way you would make your
parents attend to you and get you busy.
But when you have lost your patience
and tolerance, screaming not only does
not help, rather it worsens the situation.
My father was right. I had become bad tempered
due to hunger. Now I feel myself quite better.
Your shouting may be due to a habit. Habit means that
you have been repeatedly doing a certain work for
quite a long duration so that now you do it without
any thinking and unconsciously.
When screaming gets to be a habit for you, then most of
the times when you scream, as a matter of fact,
you do not even known why or for what!
Seek the help of your companions for abandoning this
habit. Ask them to at once advise and remind you the
moment you scream. And you too concentrate upon
it that whenever you are given advice then
at once put an end to this practice.
Do exercise it to the extent to get sure
that you have abandoned screaming.
Oh so again you are screaming!
Very well, I will not scream, anymore.
When you scream your father and mother may
possibly do one of the following things.
Possibly they may ignore you till such time that
you keep screaming. If they overlook you it
does not mean that they do not like you.
They only ignore you so that you may
learn that screaming is not a good
and proper way of attracting attention.
They may possibly move away and take
distance from you till the time that you
scream, or move you away from
themselves. Even then this does
not mean that they do not love you.
Doing it is necessary so that your screaming
does not harm them and those around you.
Get into room till the time your
screaming has not finished!
If you wish to remain happy and prosperous
then treat others in the same way as
you want to be treated by them.
This means you must not scream
around others since you do not
wish them to scream near you.
I will not at all scream anymore!
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