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Living the Right Way

Living the Right Way by : Ayatullah Jawad Tehraani

 

Have you not considered how Allah sets forth a parable of a good word (being) like a good tree, whose root is firm and whose branches are in heaven?

We present the dear reader this collection of sayings of the Holy Quran, the Holy Prophet Muhammad (S) and his Household (a.s.) that, if put into practice, guarantee the happiness of humans in this world and in the world to come. These unique pearls have been picked up by an eminent scholar, Ayatullah al-Allamah al-Shaykh Jawaad al-Tehrani (r.a.).

He was born in 1904 in Tehran and grew up in a noble and pious family. Having studied Islamic sciences in Qum, he traveled to Najaf (Iraq) and learnt more from its pious scholars. Afterwards he went to Mashad and dwelt there to become a great example of spiritual perfection to which the seekers of truth and reality would come and study.

His personality was a combination of a very gentle nature and ardency against moves that threatened principles, devoting his valuable life to jihad and struggle, worshipping Allah the Most High and neglecting the luxury of this world’s life until he accepted the invitation of his Lord on October 24, 1989.

Mr. Tehrani wrote several precious books in both Arabic and Persian of which his “Ayin-e-Zendegi” (Living the Right Way) on Islamic Ethics, published by this institute, is quite popular. We are now presenting this honoured book in English and Arabic.

May Allah the Most High purify our endeavour for His Will. He is a Powerful Guardian and Worthy of granting our supplication.

Dar Rah-e-Haqq Institute.
As everybody can clearly understand from the Holy Quran and the traditions of Islam, an important purpose behind the mission of the prophets, especially the Last Holy Prophet Muhammad (S), is to guide people to the reformation of their morality and the purification of their souls; that is to say, to make them grow through commands and rules which guarantee their felicity and happiness in this world and the world to come, and to protect them against wickedness, psychological difficulties and ill-treatment.

Allah the Most High said: “Even as We have sent to you an Apostle from among yourselves who recites to you Our communications, and purifies you and teaches you the book and the wisdom, and teaches you that which you did not know.” (2:151)

He also said: “Certainly Allah conferred a benefit upon the believers when He raised an Apostle from among themselves, reciting to them His communications, and purifying them and teaching them the book and wisdom, surely before that they are in manifest error.”(3:164)

The Holy Prophet Muhammad (S) said: “I was not sent but to perfect good behaviour.”

He (S) also said: “Keep on practicing good ethics; because, for such Allah has sent me.”

Imam Ali the Commander of the Faithful (a.s.) said: “O people! When Allah created men, He wanted them to obtain valuable qualities and noble behaviour. He knew that it could not happen except by explaining what is good and what is bad; which in actuality He has explained through religious commands and prohibitions.”
The most important pillar for the reformation of individuals is the reformation of their minds. If man’s actions are for the sake of Allah the Almighty and to show obedience to Him, or at least, to obtain the reward of the world to come and to be saved from its punishment, they will bring about well-being and felicity in both the worlds for him, and he will he fruitful for the society, On the contrary, if his actions are only for material goals, they will not have elevated results.

Indeed the most excellent aim behind people’s efforts is that which is for the pleasure of Allah, the Most High. A society with such a prominent goal does not yield to any kind of aggression and transgression, nor does it surrender to immorality. For this reason the Holy Quran and the Islamic traditions lay stress on the reformation of the mind.

Allah the Most High said: “Surely sincere obedience is due to Allah (alone).” (39:3)

He also said: “And they are not enjoined anything except that they should serve Allah, being sincere to Him in obedience, to be upright, keep the prayer and pay the poor-rate; and that is the right religion.” (98:5)

He also said: “Whoever hopes to meet his Lord, he should do good deeds, and not join any one in the service of his Lord.” (18:110)

He also said: “And among men is he who sells himself to seek the pleasure of Allah; and Allah is Affectionate to (His) servants.” (2:207)

He also said: “And the parable of those who spend their property to seek the pleasure of Allah and for the certainty of their souls is as the parable of a garden on an elevated ground, upon which heavy rain falls, so it brings its fruit twofold; but if heavy rain does not fall upon it, then light rain (is sufficient); and Allah sees what you do.”(2:265)

He also said: “And whatever good thing you spend, it is to your own good; and you do not spend but to seek Allah’s pleasure; and whatever good thing you spend shall be paid back to you in full, and you shall not be wronged.” (2:272)

He also said: “There is no good in most of their secret councils except (for he) who enjoins charity or goodness or reconciliation between people; and whoever does this seeking Allah’s pleasure, We will give him a mighty reward.”(4:114)

He also said: “Whoever desires the gain of the hereafter, We will give him more of that again; and whoever desires the gain of this world, We give him of it, and in the hereafter he has no portion.”(42:20)

He also said: “Whoever desires this world’s life and its finery, We will pay them in full their deeds therein, and they shall not be made to suffer loss in respect of them. These are they for whom there is nothing but fire in the hereafter and what they wrought in it shall go for nothing, and vain is what they do.”(11:15-16)

He also said: “Whoever desires this present life, We hasten to him therein what We please for whomsoever We desire, then We assign to him hell; he shall enter it despised, driven away. And whoever desires the hereafter and strives for it as he ought to strive and he is a believer; (as for) these, their striving shall surely be accepted.”(17:18-19)

The Holy Prophet Muhammad (S) said: “Indeed, actions are evaluated with intentions, and man is rewarded due to his mind. So if one sets out for jihad to make Allah pleased with him, one will have what is with Allah; and if one goes to the battle-fronts for material benefits or spoils, one will not have more than that.”

He (S) also said: “Any one who learns a science to attract the attention of people to himself will not scent the odor of paradise.”

He (S) also said: “Indeed, every truth has a reality; and a servant of Allah does not attain the reality of sincerity except when he does not like to be praised for anything he does for Allah.”

Imam ‘Ali (a.s.) the Commander of the Faithful said: “Salvation can be obtained by sincerity alone.”

Imam Muhammad al-Baqir (a.s.) said: “If a servant of Allah performs a religious duly for His sake and for the world to come, but he mixes it up with someone else’s pleasure, he makes the latter a partner with Allah.”

Imam Ja’far al-Sadiq (a.s.) said: “Surely Allah will raise people on the Day of Judgement according to their state of mind.”

Concerning “Whoever hopes to meet his Lord, he should do good deeds, and not join anyone in the service of his Lord,”1 he (a.s.) said: “When somebody does a righteous work not for the sake of Allah, but for self-praise, so that the people may hear of it, he has fallen into shirk (polytheism).”

He (a.s.) also said: “Any one who learns the traditions of religion for the benefit of this world, will not have any share in the world to come. But anyone who learns them for the reward in the world to come, Allah will give him in both the worlds.”

He (a.s.) also said: “All kinds of showing off of one’s spiritual deeds are shirk (polytheism). Indeed, anyone who works for people, his reward is with people; and anyone who works for Allah his reward is with Allah.”

He (a.s.) also said: “Allah says: ‘I am the Most Independent of partners; so I accept of the people’s actions those which are for Me alone’.”

He (a.s.) also said: “Your sincere action is that for which you want to be praised by no one except by Allah.”
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1. The Qur’an, 9: 110
A) Shirk through Showing off
Islam does not allow showing off in worship and considers it as a cause of making actions void and useless. It is a kind of shirk (polytheism).

If man’s actions are for the sake of Allah and to show obedience to Him, to be thankful to Him, to come near to His glory, to acquire his mercy and love, or at least, to obtain the reward of the world to come and to be saved from its punishment, they will he correct and fruitful; but if they are for the sake of other than Allah and to get some material benefit, such as fame, importance, status, etc., they will be in vain and will he fruitless.

The Holy Prophet Muhammad (S) was asked: ‘How could one obtain the salvation of the Day of Judgement?’ He (S) answered: “Salvation is that you should not try to deceive Allah; lest He should return your deception to you; for anyone who tries to cheat Allah, will he cheated by Him and He will take the faith away from him. In this case man deceives his own self, and he does not know.”

He (S) was asked again: ‘How does a man try to deceive Allah?’ He (S) answered: “A person performs what Allah has ordered him, but he is concerned about other than Him”.

“Fear Allah in showing off; because it is a kind of shirk (polytheism). On the Day of Judgement he who shows off will be called with four names: O wicked, O disbeliever, O deceitful, O loser, your work came to nothing and your reward was lost. No salvation awaits you. Go and ask the one for whom you have worked for salvation.”

He (S) was asked for the interpretation of “Whoever hopes to meet his Lord, he should do good deeds, and not join any one in the service of his Lord.”1 He (S) said: “Any one who prays to show off is a mushrik; any one who gives alms to show off is a mushrik; any one who fasts to show off is a mushrik; any one who sets out for hajj (pilgrimage) for showing off is a mushrik; any one who performs any duty which Allah has commanded for showing off is a mushrik; and Allah will never accept the work of him who shows off.”
B) Shirk through Obedience
When one obeys other than Allah and disobeys Him, one falls into the shirk (polytheism) through obedience.

Allah the Most High said: “And most of them do not believe in Allah without associating others (with Him).”(12:106) [It means that, they, in spite of their religious faith, obey Satan].

He also said: “And they have taken gods besides Allah that they should be to them a source of strength. By no means! They shall soon deny their worshipping them, and they shall be adversaries to them.”(19:81-82)

He also said: “They have taken their doctors of law and their monks for lords besides Allah.”(9:31)

He also said: “Have you seen him who takes his low desires for his god?”(25:43)

He also said: “Say: ‘O followers of the Book, come to an equitable proposition between us and you that we shall not serve any but Allah and (that) we shall not associate aught with Him, and (that) some of us shall not take others for lords besides Allah;’ but if they turn back, then say: Bear witness that we are Muslims.”

He also said: “Did I not charge you, O children of Adam, that you should not serve Satan? Surely he is your open enemy. And that you should serve Me; this is the right way.”

The Holy Prophet Muhammad (S) said: “No obedience to any creature is allowed when it is a disobedience to the Creator.”

Concerning “And most of them do not believe in Allah without associating (with Him),”2 Imam Muhammad al-Baqir (a.s.) said: “It implies attributing partners in obedience, and not in worship. The sins that people commit are of this category; in this case they obey Satan and make him a partner with Allah in obedience.”

Concerning this Imam Ja’far al-Sadiq (a.s.) said: “It is attributing partners in obedience and not in worship. A man obeys Satan without knowing that; so he becomes a mushrik (polytheist).”

Concerning “And they have taken gods besides Allah, that they should be to them a source of strength. By no means! They shall soon deny their worshipping them, and they shall be adversaries to them,”3 Imam Ja’far al-Sadiq (a.s.) said: “The word ‘Worship’ here does not mean bowing and prostrating for prayer; rather, it is obedience to men. Anyone who obeys a creature and disobeys the Creator actually ‘worships’ him.”

In his epistle to the caliph al-Ma’mun, Imam ‘Ali al-Rida (a.s.) wrote: “To do good to the parents is a religious duty, even if they are disbelievers. But when it is a cause for the disobedience of Allah neither they nor other people should be obeyed. Because no obedience to any creature is allowed when it is a disobedience to the Creator.”
C) Shirk through Favours
When one is limited in vision and, in the interpretation of each phenomenon, concentrates on its natural causes in a manner which ignores the will of Allah, one falls into this kind of shirk (Polytheism).

Concerning “And most of them do not believe in Allah without associating others (with Him),”4 Imam Muhammad al-Baqir (a.s.) and Imam Ja’far al-Sadiq (a.s.) said: “It is attributing partners unto Him in favours which are given to man.”

Concerning the same ayat, Imam Ja’far al-Sadiq (a.s.) again said: “It is about him who says: ‘If such and such were not there, I or my family would have perished or afflicted by misfortune as you see, he considers a partner for Allah who provides for him and protects him.”

The Imam (a.s.) was asked about phrases like this: “Had not Allah conferred me of His favour through such and such, I or my family would have perished, etc.” He (a.s.) said: “There is no blemish in an expression like this.”

Imam ‘Ali al-Rida (a.s.) said: “That is a kind of shirk (polytheism) which is less than disbelief.”
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1. The Quran 18:110.

2. The Qur’an 12:106.

3. The Qur’an 20:81-82.

4. The Qur’an 12:106.
Humility
He who yields to the negative quality of arrogance thinks of himself as a person more important and higher than anybody else, and tries, in his speech, deeds and attitudes to degrade other people.

To differentiate arrogance from conceit (to be discussed later on), we must remember that when a man is arrogant, he compares himself to other individuals; but if he is conceited, he has just an exaggerated opinion of his own positive qualities. The moral trait contrary to arrogance is humility, which is a virtue in the spirit of man.

Allah the Most High said: “And do not go about in the land exultingly, for you can not cut through the earth nor reach the mountains in height.”

Quoting Luqman the Wise, He says: “And do not turn your face away from people in contempt, nor go about in the land exulting overmuch; surely Allah does not love any self-conceited boaster. And pursue the right course in your going about and lower your voice; surely the most hateful of voices is braying of the ass.”

Addressing the Holy Prophet Muhammad (S) He says: “And make yourself humble to the believers,”

He also said: “And be humble to him who follows you from among the believers.”

The Holy Prophet Muhammad (S) said: “Indeed, humility increases the dignity of one endowed with it. Be humble, and Allah will exalt you.”

He (S) also said: “Most of those who go to hell are the arrogant.”

He (S) also said: “Indeed, the most beloved of you to me and the nearest of you to my position on the Day of Judgement are the best of you in nature and in humility; and the furthest of you from me are the vainglorious, that is the arrogant.”

Imam ‘Ali (a.s.) the Commander of the Faithful said: “The ugliest of vices is arrogance.”

He (a.s.) also said: “The most harmful disaster for the intellect is arrogance.”

He (a.s.) also said: “Beware of having arrogance; because it is the greatest sin and the basest deficiency; it is also the ornament of Satan.”

He (a.s.) also said: “Humility exalts you and arrogance makes you despised.”

He (a.s.) advised a governor general he had appointed to rule Egypt as: “Be humble to people, meet them gently and receive them with a cheerful face.”

Imam Ja’far al-Sadiq (a.s.) said: “It is of humility to be pleased with sitting in a lower place, to greet everybody encountered, to give up contending even when one is truthful, and to be unhappy of people’s praise for one’s piety.”

He (a.s.) also said: “Beware of being haughty and arrogant; because arrogance is like a garment for the majesty of Allah. He who competes with Allah in His majestic garment, Allah will break and disgrace him on the Day of Judgement.”

He (a.s.) also said: “Keep on having love for poor Muslims; anyone who despises them and shows arrogance to them, he has slipped away from Allah’s religion; Allah will despise him and send His wrath upon him.”

In another saying he (a.s.) listed the practice of arrogance and haughtiness among grave (mortal) sins; the same thing being found in an epistle of Imam ‘Ali al-Rida (a.s.) to the caliph al-Ma’mun.

Imam Musa al-Kazim (a.s.) said: “Humility means that your behaviour to people must be in the same way as you expect of their behaviour.”

He (a.s.) also said: “There are degrees for humility. One of them is to understand one’s merits and capabilities, and to use them duly, with a pure heart. A man like this should not behave with people in a manner, which he dislikes for himself. He will repay bad deeds with good deeds, restrain his anger and pardon men; and Allah loves the doers of good (to others).”

Imam ‘Ali al-Rida (a.s.) said: “Anyone who greets a poor Muslim in a manner different from his greeting a rich one, Allah will be wroth with him on the Day of Judgement.”
Shunning Conceit
Conceit means to have an exaggerated opinion of oneself, to be pleased with oneself, vanity, egoism; all of these because of some superiority in one’s thought or success in one’s action. It is a harmful quality and has been condemned and forbidden by religion. The origin of conceit in most of people is ignorance. A conceited man has come up short in knowing about the Lord and His greatness and in realizing his own need and dependence on God. For this reason he is proud of his material and spiritual capabilities and boasts about his successfulness in thought and action. He is unaware of the fact that all kinds of perfection and capacity as well as material favours are from God; and all sorts of good deeds and success in man’s life come from Him.

Allah the Most High said: “And whatever favour is (bestowed) on you it is from Allah.”

He also said: “Say: ‘Shall We inform you of the greatest losers in (their) deeds? (These are) those whose labour is lost in this world’s life and they think that they are well-versed in skill of the work of hands.”

He also said: “And were it not for Allah’s grace upon you and His mercy, not one of you would have ever been pure, but Allah purifies whom He pleases, and Allah is Hearing, Knowing.”

He also said: “Whatever benefit comes to you (O man), it is from Allah, and whatever misfortune befalls you, it is from yourself.”

The Holy Prophet Muhammad (S) said: “Three things destroy man’s spirit: following his desires, being greedy and conceit,”

Imam ‘Ali (a.s.) the Commander of the Faithful said: “Conceit is a sign of deficiency in one’s intellect.”

He (a.s.) also said: “It is enough for a sign of ignorance to be conceited in knowledge.”

He (a.s.) also said: “An evil deed which causes sorrow in your spirit is better in Allah’s sight than a good action which brings you conceit.”

Imam Muhammad al-Baqir (a.s.) said: “Two men went into a mosque. One of them was pious and the other was sinful. When they came back the pious man was sinful and the sinful man was pious! The one who was pious boasted about his worship and remembered his good actions; for this reason he fell. The one who was sinful felt shame and sorrow for his evil and bad deeds, remembering his sins and asking forgiveness from Allah; for this reason he was purified.”

He (a.s.) also said: “Three things destroy man: magnifying his actions, ignoring his sins and being conceited for some correct ideas,”

Imam Ja’far al-Sadiq (a.s.) said: “He who yields to conceit will perish.”

Imam Musa Al-Kazim (a.s.) said: “Conceit has degrees. One of them is to decorate evil actions to seem good. In this case, conceit causes man to think he is doing good. Another variety of it comes to a believer when he tries to remind Allah of his belief; while Allah has the right of reminding him of His favours to him.”
Abhorrence of Self-Praise
Another similar hateful trait is self-praise. In religion it has been condemned and prohibited.

Allah the Most High said: “Have you not considered those who attribute purity to themselves? Nay, Allah purifies whom He pleases; and they shall not be wronged the husk of a date-stone.”

He also said: “He knows you best when He brings you forth from the earth and when you are embryos in the wombs of your mothers; therefore do not attribute purity to your souls; He knows him best who guards (against evil).”

He also said: “And as for the favour of your Lord, do announce (it).”

About the second ayat mentioned above, Imam Muhammad al-Baqir (a.s.) said: “Nobody among you should boast about excessiveness in praying, fasting, almsgiving and doing other religious duties. For Allah knows him best who guards (against evil).”

When Imam Ja’far al-Sadiq (a.s.) was asked about it, he (a.s.) answered: “It is to say: ‘I have prayed, fasted, etc. in supererogation.”

He (a.s.) was asked: ‘Is it permitted for man to speak of his excellence?’ He (a.s.) answered: “Yes, when it is necessary. Do you not remember what the prophet Yusuf (Joseph) (a.s.) said to Pharaoh: ‘Place me (in authority) over the treasures of the land, surely I am a good keeper, knowing well,’1 and what the prophet Hud (a.s.) said to his people: ‘I am a faithful adviser to you?’”2
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1. The Qur’an: 12:55.

2. The Qur’an 7: 68.
Resisting Envy
One of the most offensive vices and faults is envy. It is a feeling of ill will and dislike for some favour given to someone and wishing it to be removed from him. Any action, which comes from this evil motive, has been disapproved and forbidden in religion. Another feeling which is almost similar to this, i.e. emulation, which is accompanied by no dislike, should not be counted a vice. The morality contrary to envy is benevolence.

Allah the Most High said: “Do they envy the people for what Allah has given them of His grace?”

He also said: “And do not covet that by which Allah has made some of you excel others; men shall have the benefit of what they earn and women shall have the benefit of what they earn; and ask Allah of His grace; surely Allah knows all things.”

Imam ‘Ali (a.s.) the Commander of the Faithful said: “Envy is the master of deficiencies.”

He (a.s.) also said: “Envy is the head of vices.”

He (a.s.) also said; “The envious will never be in the forefront.”

He (a.s.) also said: “The envious are ill, even if they are bodily sound.”

He (a.s.) also said: “The fruit of envy is troubles in this world and in the next.”

He (a.s.) also said: “Beware of having envy; for it is the worst of characters and the ugliest of natures.”

Explaining the second ayat mentioned above, Imam Ja’far al-Sadiq (a.s.) said: “It means that nobody should wish that some favour and luxury bestowed on a certain person were given to him; but one can ask God to be endowed with the like of it.”

He (a.s.) also said: “The disasters of faith are envy, conceit and pride.”

He (a.s.) also said: “Envy negates faith as quickly as the fire negates the dry grass.”

He (a.s.) also said: “Believers are emulous, but not envious; and hypocrites are envious, but not emulous.”

He (a.s.) also said; “Avoid the punishment of Allah and do not envy each other.”

Imam Musa al-Kazim (a.s.) said: “The best thing for bringing man near to Allah, besides knowing Him, is praying, doing good to parents, and quilting envy, conceit and pride.”
Generosity
Generosity is a virtue and niggardliness is a bad quality which brings degradation, destroys dignity and honour and deprives the needy of their due rights.

Allah the Most High said: “And let not those deem, who are niggardly in giving away that which Allah has granted them out of His grace, that it is good for them; nay, it is worse for them.”

He also said; “Behold! you are those who are called upon to spend in Allah’s way, but among you are those who are niggardly, and whoever is niggardly is niggardly against his soul; and Allah is Self-sufficient and you have need (of him).”

He also said: “Surely Allah does not love him who is proud, boastful. Those who are niggardly and bid people to be niggardly and hide what Allah has given them of His grace; and We have prepared for the unbelievers a disgraceful chastisement.”

The Holy Prophet Muhammad (S) said: “Beware of being niggardly; because it has always been the main cause of destruction for those who were before you. This vice ordered them to tell lies, and they obeyed; it ordered them to oppress others, and they obeyed; and it ordered them to ignore family ties, and they obeyed.”

Imam Muhammad al-Baqir (a.s.) said: “A believer can not be cowardly, covetous or niggardly.”

Imam Ali al-Rida (a.s.) said: “The generous are near to Allah, near to people, and near to paradise. The niggardly are far from Allah, far from people, and far from paradise.”
Good Natured-ness
Good nature has been praised and ill nature has been condemned in religion.

Allah the Most High said: “It is due to mercy from Allah that you deal with them gently, and had you been rough, hard-hearted, they would certainly have dispersed from around you.”

The Holy Prophet Muhammad (S) said: “The most perfect of the believers in faith is the best of them in nature.”

He (S) also said: “In the balance of morality nothing weighs heavier than good nature.”

He (S) also said: “Have good nature; for it necessarily guides you to paradise. Avoid ill nature; for it necessarily guides you to hell.”

He (S) also said: “On the Day of Judgement nothing is more valuable than good nature.”

He (S) also said: “He who has a good nature will have the reward of those who observe fasting in the day and keep awake praying all of the night.”

He (S) also said: “Ill nature corrupts deeds, in the same way that vinegar destroys honey.”

Imam ‘Ali (a.s.) the Commander of the Faithful said: “All of those who repent remain faithful to it except the ill-natured people; for whenever they abandon a sin, they indulge in another one worse than it.”

Imam Ja’far al-Sadiq (a.s.) said: “The most perfect of human beings in intellect is the best of them in nature.”

He (a.s.) also said: “Ill nature corrupts faith, in the same way that vinegar destroys honey.”

He (a.s.) also said: “He who has a bad nature puts himself in trouble.”

Mentioning the standards of good nature, he (a.s.) said: “You must be humble, speak honourably and meet your brother cheerfully.”
Patience
Patience is an essential cause of success. It has been recommended in religion.

Allah the Most High said: “O you who believe, seek assistance through patience and prayer; surely Allah is with the patient.”

He also said: “And give good news to the patient. Who, when a misfortune befalls them, say: ‘Surely we are Allah’s and to Him we shall surely return.’ Those are they on whom are blessings and mercy from their Lord, and those are the followers of the right course.”

He also said: “And give good news to the humble. To those whose hearts tremble when Allah is mentioned, and those who are patient under that which afflicts them, and those who keep up prayer, and spend (benevolently) out of what We have given them.”

He also said: “And as for those who believe and do good, We will certainly give them abode in the high places in gardens beneath which rivers flow, abiding therein; how good the reward of the workers! Those who are patient and on their Lord do they rely.”

He also said: “Indeed, the patient will he paid back their reward in full without measure.”

He also said: “In the name of Allah, the Beneficent, the Merciful. I swear by the afternoon. Most surely man is in loss. Except those who believe and do good, and enjoin on each other truth, and enjoin on each other patience.”

He also said: “And how many a prophet has fought alongside whom were many worshippers of the Lord; so they did not become weak-hearted on account of what befell them in Allah’s way, nor did they weaken, nor did they abase themselves; and Allah loves the patient.”

The Holy Prophet Muhammad (S) said: “There are three kinds of forbearance: Forbearance in misfortune, forbearance in obedience and forbearance against disobedience.”

He (S) also said: “If you can have both patience and certainty, then have them; and if you cannot have them both, then have patience; because patience in difficulties brings about much goodness. Know that victory is with patience, and salvation is after hardship; ‘Surely with difficulty is ease. Surely with difficulty is ease.’1”

Imam ‘Ali (a.s.) the Commander of the Faithful said: “The role of patience in actions is like the role of the head among the organs of the body. If the head is gone the organs become useless and if patience is gone actions are useless.”

He (a.s.) also said: “There are two kinds of forbearance: One of them is forbearance in misfortune; it is admirable and good. Another one, which is better than that, is forbearance in what Allah has forbidden.”

Imam ‘Ali Zayn al-Abidin (a.s.) said: “The relation between patience and belief is like the relation between the head and the body. There is no belief for him who has no patience.”

Imam Muhammad al-Baqir (a.s.) said: “I have patience with this boy of mine and with my household with a complete tolerance. Indeed he who is patient will have the reward of him who prays all the night and observes fasting on days, and the position of a martyr who has (ought along with the Prophet Muhammad (S)”

Imam Ja’far al-Sadiq (a.s.) said: “The relation between patience and belief is like the relation between head and the body. There cannot be any belief without patience, in the same way that there cannot be a living body without head.”

He (a.s.) also said: “Keep on having patience in all of your affairs. For when Allah sent Muhammad He commanded him to have patience and tolerance: ‘And bear patiently what they say and avoid them with a becoming avoidance. And leave Me and the rejecters, the possessors of ease and plenty.’2 Repel (evil) with what is best, then he between whom and you was enmity would be as if he were a warm friend. And none are made to receive it but those who are patient and none are made to receive it but those who have a mighty good fortune.”3
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1. The Qur’an 94:5-6.

2. The Qur’an 73:10-11.

3. The Qur’an 41:34-35.
Trust in God
Trust in God is an admission of our shortcomings and a reliance on Him for success. It is a duty of the faithful to trust in Allah and to believe that their success depends on His Will.

Allah the Most High said: “Allah, there is no god but He; and upon Allah, then, let the believers rely.”

He also said: “And whoever trusts in Allah, He is sufficient for him.”

He also said: “Those only are believers whose hearts become full of fear when Allah is mentioned, and when Our communications are recited to them they increase them in faith, and upon their Lord do they rely.”

He also said: “And Allah loves those who rely.”

The Holy Prophet Muhammad (S) said: “He who likes to be the strongest should trust in Allah.”

He (S) also said: “He who likes to be the most virtuous should trust in Allah.”

Imam Ja’far al-Sadiq (a.s.) said: “Indeed riches and honour wander about; when they come across trust, they dwell with it.”
This means to hold fast by God for protection from all kinds of evil. Islam, while enjoining us to endeavour in pursuing our affairs, recommends clinging to Allah.

Allah the Most High said: “O people, surely there has come to you manifest proof from your Lord and We have sent to you a clear light. Then as for those who believe in Allah and hold fast by Him, He will cause them to enter into His mercy and grace and guide them to Himself on a right path.”

He also said: ‘Therefore keep up prayer and pay the poor-rate and hold fast by Allah; He is your Guardian; how excellent the Guardian and how excellent the Helper!”

He also said: “And whoever holds fast to Allah, he indeed is guided to the right path.”

Imam ‘Ali (a.s.) the Commander of the Faithful said: “He who holds fast to Allah, He will save him.”

He (a.s.) also said: “He who holds fast to Allah, no devil can harm him.”

Imam Ja’far al-Sadiq (a.s.) said: “Any servant of Allah who is attentive to what Allah requires of him to do, Allah will be attentive to his demands; and he who holds fast to Allah, He will give him shelter; and he who has chosen Allah for his helper and shelter will not care about anything, even if the sky falls on the earth, or an epidemic disaster comes to the people. Thus he will be under Allah’s protection against all afflictions for his piety; ‘Surely those who guard (against evil) are in a secure place.’1”
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1. The Qur’an 44:51.
Having a Good Opinion of God
A believer must keep two things in his heart: a fear from the consequences of his faults, and a hope for the mercy of Allah accompanied by a good opinion of Him. Having a suspicion about Allah or a despair of His mercy is a grave (mortal) sin.

The Holy Prophet Muhammad (S) quotes Allah as saying: “Those who work for My reward should not rely on their works. For, even if they try their very best to worship Me throughout their lives, they fall short of My due worship, seeking honour, bliss and high ranks in My presence. They should be sure of My mercy and hopeful of My favour, having a good opinion of Me. In this case My beneficence, mercy and forgiveness envelop them. For I am the Beneficent, the Merciful, as I am called.”

He (S) also said: “I swear by Allah besides Whom there is no god, that no believer can ever attain the benefits of this world and the world to come except by his good opinion of Allah, his hope, having a good nature and by abstaining from backbiting believers. I swear by Allah besides Whom there is no god, that no repenting believer will be punished except for his suspicion about Allah, being in despair, having an ill nature and backbiting believers. I swear by Allah besides Whom there is no god, that no believing servant has a good opinion of Allah except that He will behave duly towards His believing servant. For Allah is generous and graceful. When His believing servant has a good opinion of Him, He does not fail to do according to it. So have a good opinion of Allah and wish for Him.”

Imam Muhammad al-Baqir (a.s.) said: “A believing servant must retain two lights in his heart: a light of fear and a light of hope, and these lights must be equal.”

Imam Ja’far al-Sadiq (a.s.) said: “A believer cannot be called such unless he is fearful and hopeful; and he cannot be fearful and hopeful unless he acts according to his fear and hope.”

He (a.s.) also said: “You should not hope for Allah’s mercy in a manner that encourages you to commit sins; nor should you fear from Allah’s punishment in a manner that brings you disappointment.”

He (a.s.) also said: “Having a good opinion of Allah means that you must not hope in anyone except Him and you should not fear for anything except for your sins.”
Truthfulness
Islam has laid stress on telling the truth and avoiding lies.

Allah the Most High said: “Surely the men who submit and the women who submit, and the believing men and the believing women, and the obeying men and the obeying women, and the truthful men and the truthful women, and the patient men and the patient women, and the humble men and the humble women, and the almsgiving men and the almsgiving women, and the fasting men and the fasting women, and the men who guard their private parts and the women who guard, and the men who remember Allah much and the women who remember - Allah has prepared for them forgiveness and a mighty reward.”

The Holy Prophet Muhammad (S) said: “Three things are the signs of hypocrisy: breach of trust, lying and breach of promise.”

He (S) also said: “He who has these three things should be counted a hypocrite, even if he performs the daily prayers, observes fasting and thinks that he is a Muslim: breach of trust, lying and breach of promise. Allah the Most High said: ‘Surely Allah does not love the treacherous;’1 ‘The curse of Allah be on him if he is one of the liars;’2 ‘And mention Ismail in the Book; surely he was truthful in (his) promise and he was an apostle, a prophet.’3”

Imam ‘Ali (a.s.) the Commander of the Faithful said: “O people, be truthful, surely Allah is with the truthful; and avoids lying, for it stands far from faith.”

He (a.s.) also said: “A servant of Allah does not taste faith unless he gives up lying earnestly or jokingly.”

Imam Muhammad al-Baqir (a.s.) said: “Lies destroy faith.”

Imam Ja’far al-Sadiq (a.s.) said: “Keep on having fear of Allah, truthfulness and trustworthiness.”

In another saying he listed lying among grave (mortal) sins; the same thing being found in an epistle of Imam ‘Ali al-Rida (a.s.) to the caliph al-Ma’mun.
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1. The Qur’an: 8:58.

2. The Qur’an 24:7.

3. The Qur’an: 19:54.
Not to Counterfeit Religious Sayings
Forging lies against Allah, the Messenger and the Religious Authorities is forbidden in religion.

Allah the Most High said: “And who is more unjust than he who forges a lie against Allah.”

He also said: “Surely those who forge lies against Allah shall not prosper. They will have little enjoyment for a while, but theirs will be a painful punishment.”

The Holy Prophet Muhammad (S) said: “Any one who intentionally forges lies against me prepares for a residence of fire.”

Imam Ja’far al-Sadiq (a.s.) said: “The forging of lies against religious authorities is like the forging of lies against the Messenger of Allah; and the forging of lies against the Messenger of Allah is like the forging of lies against Allah; and he who forges lies against Allah will he punished by the Most High Allah.”

He (a.s.) also said: “Forging lies against Allah, His Messenger and the later’s successors is a grave (mortal) sin.”
Upholding Justice
Religion calls upon people to do justice and seriously prohibits them from doing injustice.

Allah the Most High said: “Surely Allah enjoins the doing of justice and the doing of good (to others) and the giving to kindred, and He forbids indecency, evil and rebellion; He admonishes you that you may be mindful.”

He also said: “O you who believe, when you deal with each other in contracting a debt for a fixed time, then write it down; and let a scribe write it down between you with justice; ... but if he who owes the debt is unsound in understanding, or weak, or is not able to dictate himself, let his guardian dictate with justice.”

He also said: “Surely Allah commands you to make over trusts to their owners and that when you judge between people you judge with justice; surely Allah admonishes you with what is excellent; surely Allah is Seeing, Hearing.”

He also said: “O you who believe, be maintainers of justice, bearers of witness for Allah’s sake, though it may be against your own selves or (your) parents or near relatives; if he be rich or poor, Allah is nearer to them both in compassion; therefore do not follow (your) low desires, lest you deviate; and if you swerve or turn aside, then surely Allah is aware of what you do.”

He also said; “O you who believe, be upright for Allah, bearers of witness with justice, and let not hatred of a people incite you not to act equitably; act equitably, that is nearer to piety, and be careful of (your duty to) Allah; surely Allah is Aware of what you do.”

He also said: “And if two parties of the believers quarrel, make peace between them; but if one of them acts wrongfully towards the other, fight that one which acts wrongfully until it returns to Allah’s command; then if it returns, make peace between them with justice and act equitably; surely Allah loves those who act equitably.”

He also said: “And give full measure and weight with justice - We do not impose on any soul a duty except to the extent of its ability; and when you speak, then be just though it be (against) a relative.”

He also said: “And help one another in goodness and piety, and do not help one another in sin and aggression.”

He also said: “And whoever among you is unjust, We will make him taste a great chastisement.”

He also said: “And do not incline to those who are unjust, lest the fire touch you, and you have no guardians besides Allah, then you shall not be helped.”

The Holy Prophet Muhammad (S) said: “Indeed injustice is an evil which brings its punishment most quickly.”

He (S) also said: “The best of people is he who is helpful to people; and the worst of people is he who is harmful to people. Worse than him is he who is respected for fear of his evil.”

He (S) also said: “When a man walks with a wrongdoer to support him and he knows him to be so, he leaves faith.”

He (S) also said: “He who harms a believer will be harmed by Allah, and he who grieves him will be grieved by Allah.”

Imam ‘Ali (a.s.) the Commander of the Faithful said: “You must be enemies of the oppressors and defenders of the oppressed.”

He (a.s.) also said: “He who is unjust, his injustice will destroy him.”

He (a.s.) also said: “He who is unjust destroys himself.”

He (a.s.) also said: “He who wrongs Allah’s servants, Allah will be his enemy besides His servants; and he whose enemy is Allah, will be condemned and punished in this world and the world to come.”

He (a.s.) also said: “Keep far from injustice; for it is the greatest guilt and the gravest sin.”

He (a.s.) also said: “The injustice of man in this world makes his unfortunate fate of the Last Day.”

Imam Muhammad al-Baqir (a.s.) said: “The injustice of this world brings the darkness of the world to come.”

Imam Ja’far al-Sadiq (a.s.) said: “He who wrongs people can not be counted as a Shi’ite (i.e. a follower of Imams).”
Keeping Covenants
In Islam the importance of the keeping of covenants and not breaking of them has been emphasized.

Allah the Most High said: “O you who believe, fulfill your obligations.”

He also said: “Successful indeed are the believers... Those who are keepers of their trusts and their covenant.”

He also said: “And fulfill your covenants; surely every covenant shall be questioned about.”

He also said: “Except those of the idolaters with whom you made an agreement, when they have not failed you in anything and have not supported any one against you, then fulfill your agreement with them to end of their term; surely Allah loves those who are careful (of their duty).”

He also said: “And if they [Muslims] seek aid from you in the matter of religion, aid is incumbent on you except against a people between whom and you there is a treaty and Allah see what you do.”

Imam Muhammad al-Baqir (a.s.) and Imam Ja’far al-Sadiq (a.s.) said: “There are three things in which Allah does not give any permission to anybody to disregard them; trustworthiness to the good and to the bad, keeping covenants for the good and the bad, and doing good to parents whether they are good or bad.”
Fulfilling Promises
The fulfillment of promise is a virtue, which Islam recommends. The breaking of promise is a vice, which it prohibits.

Allah the Most High said: “O you who believe, why you say that which you do not do? It is most hateful to Allah that you should say that which you do not do.”

The Holy Prophet Muhammad (S) said: “He who believes in Allah and the Day of Judgement must fulfill his promises.”

He (S) also said: “He who has these three things should he counted a hypocrite, even if he performs the daily prayers, observes fasting and thinks that he is a Muslim: breach of trust, lying and breach of promise.”

He (S) also said: “Anyone who does not wrong people in his behaviour towards them, does not lie in his talks with them, and does not break his promises to them; he is among those whose manliness is complete, whose justice is manifest, whose brotherhood is indispensable, and whose backbiting is forbidden.”

Imam ‘Ali (a.s.) the Commander of the Faithful said: “Breach of promise brings the hatred of Allah and of people. Allah says: ‘It is most hateful to Allah that you should say that which you do not do.’1”

Imam Ja’far al-Sadiq (a.s.) said: “A promise which a believer makes to his brother is a vow that has no expiation; so he who fails to fulfill it, his failure will he counted against Allah and he will he exposed to His hatred. Allah says: ‘O you who believe, why do you say that which you do not do? It is most hateful to Allah that you should say that which you do not do.’2”

He (a.s.) also said: “A believer is a brother to his believing fellow, an eye and a guide for him. He never betrays wrongs or tricks him, nor does he make to him a promise which he breaks.”
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1. The Qur’an 61:3.

2. The Qur’an 61:2-3.
Trustworthiness
Trustworthiness to the good and to the bad is one of the Islamic duties and all Muslims are required to keep it carefully.

Allah the Most High said: “But if one of you trusts another, then he who is trusted should deliver his trust, and let him be careful (of his duty to) Allah, his Lord.”

He also said: “Surely Allah commands you to make over trusts to their owners.”

He also said: “Successful indeed are the believers... Those who are keepers of their trusts and their covenant.”

He also said: “Surely Allah does not love the treacherous.”

The Holy Prophet Muhammad (S) said: “There is no belief for him who is not trustworthy.”

He (S) also said: “He who is unfaithful to a trust and does not deliver it to its owner until he passes away, his death is with a religion other than what I brought and Allah will meet him angrily.”

He (S) also said: “Don’t he unfaithful to anything that anybody deposits with you and trusts you with, ‘Surely Allah commands you to make over trusts to their owners.’1”

Imam ‘Ali (a.s.) the Commander of the Faithful said: “A Muslim is not untrustworthy when trusted with something nor does he break a promise which he makes.”

He (a.s.) also said: “Keep away from untrustworthiness; for it is the worst sin and he who has it will be punished in hell.”

He (a.s.) also said: “Keep away from untrustworthiness, for it is an opposition to Islam.”

He (a.s.) also said: “O Kumail, we do not permit anyone to break trusts. He who quotes us otherwise, he is wrong and sinful, and he will be punished for his forging of lies. I swear that the Messenger of Allah told me at his death thrice: ‘Be trustworthy to the good and to the bad in small and large things even in needles and thread.’”

Imam ‘Ali Zayn al-’Abidin (a.s.) said: “Keep on being trustworthy; I swear by Him who sent Muhammad (S) as a truthful Prophet, that if the man who killed my father (al-Husain) deposits his dagger with me, I will certainly make it over to him.”

Imam Ja’far al-Sadiq (a.s.) said: “Be pious and trustworthy to anyone who deposits a trust with you. Indeed, if the killer of Imam ‘Ali (a.s.) deposits anything with me, I will make it over to him.”

He (a.s.) also said: “Be trustworthy, even to the killer of Imam al-Husain (a.s.).”

He (a.s.) also said: “Keep en ‘being pious, trustworthy and truthful.”

He (a.s.) also said: “Three things must be regarded in any case: trustworthiness to the good and to the bad, keeping covenants for the good and the bad, and doing good to parents whether they are good or had.”
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1. The Qur’an 4:58.
Work and Endeavour
Islam recommends work and prohibits idleness.

Allah the Most High said: “And certainly We have established you in the earth and made in it a means of livelihood for you; little it is that you give thanks.”

He also said: “And out of His mercy He has made for you the night and the day, that you may rest therein, and that you may seek of His grace, and that you may give thanks.”

He also said: “But when the prayer is ended, then disperse abroad in the land and seek of Allah’s grace, and remember Allah much that you may be successful.”

The Holy Prophet Muhammad (S) said: “Cursed be he who puts his burden on people.”

He (S) also said: “There is no Muslim who plants anything of which men, animals or birds eat, but it will be counted as a charity for him till the Day of Judgement.”

He (S) also said: “Good actions are of ten kinds the best of which is business if it is taken duly and given duly.”

He (S) also said: “The supplication of the following people in the Islamic community will not be granted:

• A man who curses his parents.

• A man who curse his debtor while he has not asked him for a document.

• A man who curses his wife while he can divorce and free her.

A man, who remains at home and without going out for sustenance, prays for it. In this case Allah says to him: ‘My servant, did I not give you a sound body and organs for you to obtain your necessities and that you may not have an excuse disobeying My command that you seek your livelihood and that you may not be sustained by your family? In that case I might have given you or deprived you, while you were excused.’

A man to whom Allah has bestowed much wealth, and he has wasted it and now he prays to the Lord for sustenance. In this case Allah says to him: ‘Did I not give you a bountiful sustenance? Why did you not spend it economically as I commanded you? Why were you lavish when I had prohibited you from being so?’

Imam Ali (a.s.) the Commander of the Faithful said: “Anyone who in spite of having water and soil remains poor, stands far from Allah’s mercy.”

He (a.s.) also said: “Engage yourselves in business; for by it you will be free from the desire of what people possess. Surely Allah loves people who have some employment with honesty.”

Imam Ja’far al-Sadiq (a.s.) said: “Allah hates abundance of sleep and abundance of leisure.”

He (a.s.) also said: “Do not fail to acquire your livelihood. The former Imams used to work hard for it.”

He (a.s.) also said: “Do not fail to acquire your livelihood, lest you should he a burden on people.”

He (a.s.) also said: “Keep on being pious and seeking what is with Allah. I swear by Allah that I do not recommend you anything other than what we (Imams) do. So work hard and, when you have performed your morning prayer, go out for sustenance and look for what is lawful; then Allah will give you and provide you with your needs.”

He (a.s.) also said: “Do not quit seeking for lawful sustenance. Do your best and have reliance (on God).”

Answering one of his companions who had objected to his going out on a hot day for sustenance, he (a.s.) said: “I go out for sustenance, so that I should be independent of people.”

On a similar occasion, he (a.s.) said: “I like suffering from the heat of the sun for sustenance.”

On a similar occasion, he (a.s.) said: “Leave me. I like Allah to see me working with my hands and seeking for a lawful sustenance with suffering.”

He (a.s.) also said: “If it comes about that you knew the ultimate relief would come the next day, you should never give up going out for sustenance.”

He (a.s.) also said: “The reward of him who toils on behalf of his household is like the reward of him who does jihad for the sake of Allah.”

He (a.s.) also said: “Farmers are the treasures of Allah in His land, and among actions, nothing is more beloved by Allah than farming.”

He (a.s.) also said: “Farmers are treasures for men. They plant good things which Allah provides people with. They will have the best and highest position on the Day of Judgement and will be called ‘The Blessed Ones’.”

He (a.s.) also said: “Sow and plant; I swear by Allah that people have not engaged themselves in any occupation better and more beloved than it.”

He (a.s.) also said: “Farming is the greatest alchemy.”

He (a.s.) also said: “Do not give up business, so that you might be abased. Do business and Allah will bless you.”

He (a.s.) also said: “Do not give up business. Ask of the bounty of Allah.”

He (a.s.) also said: “The prayers of him who quits seeking for sustenance will not be granted. Having misunderstood the purport of the revelation which says: ‘And whoever is careful of (his duty to) Allah, He will make for him an outlet and give him sustenance from whence he thinks not,’1 a group of the Prophet’s companions left their jobs and devoted themselves to worship, saying ‘Our needs will be met.’ When their news reached the Prophet (S) he sent for them to interrogate them about their action. They told him that Allah had guaranteed their sustenance. The Prophet (S) said: The supplication of those who do like this will not be granted. Keep on having endeavour.’”

Imam Musa al-Kazim (a.s.) said: “Keep away from idleness and sloth; because they forbid you your portion in this world and the world to come.”

Answering the objection of a friend to his working hard in the field, he (a.s.) said: “Those who were better than me and my father worked with their own hands. The Messenger of Allah, Imam ‘Ali and my forefathers worked with their hands and it is the manner of the prophets and their successors and of the righteous.”
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1. The Qur’an 65:2-3.
Allah the Most High said: “Woe to the defrauders who, when they take the measure (of their dues) from men, take it fully, but when they measure out to others or weigh out for them, they are deficient. Do not these think that they shall be raised again on a Mighty Day?”

The Holy Prophet Muhammad (S) said: “He who deceives harms or betrays a Muslim cannot be counted as a Muslim.”

He (S) also said: “He who deceives a Muslim in buying or selling, he is not of us; and on the Day of Judgement he will be among Jews; because they are the most deceitful group to Muslims.”

He (S) also said: “Anyone who passes a night intending a deception on his Muslim brother, he passes that night and the day after it in the anger of Allah until he repents; and if he dies, his death is with a religion other than Islam.”

He (S) also said: “Trickery, cheating and dishonesty cause the fire (of hell).”

He (S) also said: “He who is a Muslim abstains from trickery and cheating.”

Imam ‘Ali (a.s.) the Commander of the Faithful said: “O businessmen, First religious jurisprudence, then business! First religious jurisprudence, then business! I swear by Allah that usury in the Islamic community is more hidden than the trail of the ants on granite. Have your oaths accompanied with truthfulness. Businessmen are sinful, and the sinful are in the fire; except those who take what is lawful and give what is lawful.”

He (a.s.) also said: “O businessmen, be careful of your duty to Allah... Refrain from oaths, abstain from telling- lies, avoid oppressing others, be just to the oppressed, do not draw near to usury; ‘Give full mea

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