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YOUTH
AND
SPOUSE SELECTION
| Preface | 13 |
| Forword | 17 |
| Introduction | 21 |
| Chapter One : Excellence of Marriage | 29 |
| Man and WOman : Enhancements of Each Other | 29 |
| Spouse : A Big Blessing from Allah | 30 |
| Marriage Philosophy | 30 |
| Spouse : The Sign of Allah's Wisdom and Spouse of Man's Comfort | 32 |
| Marriage : The Imporver of the Value of Man's Practices | 33 |
| The Lovelest Centre to Allah | 34 |
| The Medal of Honour | 34 |
| Chapter Two : When Must We Marry? | 37 |
| The Puberty Age | 39 |
| Marriage : A Medium of Reaching Allah | 44 |
| The Time of Sexual and Mental Maturity | 46 |
| The View of an Expert | 48 |
| Discussion with a Friend in This Connection | 50 |
| It is Wrong to Dash into a Rock | 54 |
| Chapter Three : Tge Merits of Timely a Marriage and Demerits of its Delay |
57 |
| Securing and Strengthening True Faith and Spiritualism | 57 |
| A Sad Specimen : | 58 |
| An Auspicious and Blessed Specimen | 60 |
| Benefitting and Enjoying a Sweet and Cheerful Youth | 60 |
| A Sorrowful Specimen | 62 |
| Remaining Pure From Corruption and Sexual | 64 |
| Safety From Nervous and Spiritual, Diseases | 68 |
| Chapter Four : Difficulties and Hurdles of Marriage | 71 |
| Difficulties : Real or Artificial? | 71 |
| First Difficulty Economic and Monetary Difficulty | 73 |
| Solutions : Allah's Supports | 73 |
| The Good News Given by the Leaders of Islam | 75 |
| A Beautiful Example | 76 |
| New Horizons | 77 |
| Job Facilities and Allowances | 78 |
| Attaining Status and More Reverence | 79 |
| Special Marriage Loans | 79 |
| Decreasing the Ceremonies and Additional Expenses | 80 |
| A Beautiful Specimen of Simple Living | 84 |
| Second Difficutly : Continuation of Education | 86 |
| The Real Problem | 86 |
| Contemplating This Difficulty | 86 |
| Solution to This Problem | 89 |
| To Drive the Thought Out of One's Mind That Education is not Harmonious with Marriage |
89 |
| The Religious and Lawful Engagement | 90 |
| Parent's Help to the Son and the Daughter | 91 |
| Birth Control | 92 |
| Contentment | 92 |
| Cooperation | 93 |
| A Word with Parents in this Regard | 94 |
| Third Difficulty : Difficulty Spouse Selection | 95 |
| The Solution | 95 |
| Fourth Difficulty : Hurdles and hindrances of the Elders and Friends | 95 |
| A Gloomy and Sad Example for your Attention | 97 |
| A Curious and Strange Example | 99 |
| An Agonistic Letter | 101 |
| Solution | 103 |
| Direct Negotiations with the Hurdle-Creators and Fault-Finders | 103 |
| Appointing a Mediator | 104 |
| A Specimen for Your Attention | 104 |
| Fifth Difficulty : Military Service | 114 |
| Solutions : Long Term Solution | 115 |
| Short Term Solution 1- Religious and Legal Engagement | 115 |
| Staying in the House of One's in-Laws | 116 |
| Parents' Help | 116 |
| Sixth Difficulty : Presence of Older Brothers and Sisters | 116 |
| Solution to this Problem | 117 |
| Seventh Difficulty : Dwelling | 117 |
| Solution | 117 |
| Long Term | 117 |
| Short Term Solution | 118 |
| Temporarily Staying at the Parents' Home | 118 |
| Renting a House | 118 |
| Eighth Difficulty : Inability of the Youth to Manage and Run Their Life | 118 |
| Ninth Difficulty : Natural Difficulties | 119 |
| Philosophy of These Difficulties and Hardships | 119 |
| A Word withe the Elders | 124 |
| A Social Disease | 126 |
| Chapter Five : Criteria of Spouse Selection | 129 |
| Whom May We Select as a Spouse? | 129 |
| Subtlety! | 130 |
| Subtlety in Selection, Smoothness in Marriage | 131 |
| Criterial of Spouse Selection | 132 |
| Religiousness | 133 |
| The Fruits of Religiousness | 137 |
| What Should the Irreligious Youths Do? | 137 |
| Morality | 139 |
| Status of Morality in Spouse Selection | 139 |
| Specimens of Decent and Indecent Behaviour | 140 |
| Third : Nobility of the Family | 143 |
| Fourth : Reason (Basic Condition for Both Parties) | 147 |
| Meaning of Reason as Defined by Imam Sadiq | 148 |
| An Unpleasant Specimen | 149 |
| A More Unpleasant Specimen | 150 |
| Fifth : Physical and Mental Health | 151 |
| Consider This Miserable Specimen : | 152 |
| Sixth : Beauty | 153 |
| Seventh : Knowledge and Education | 157 |
| Eighth : Being Each Other's Match | 158 |
| Salient Points of Inco-Ordination of Ismail and Safoora | 163 |
| Refuting a Doubt | 163 |
| Conditions of Compatibility | 164 |
| Discussing the Future Aims and Probable Changes Before Marriage | 182 |
| Avoiding Negligence | 191 |
| Love; The Pivot of Life | 192 |
| Kinds of Love | 197 |
| Lasting Love | 200 |
| A Magnanimous and Beautiful Specimen : | 201 |
| Mutual Love | 204 |
| A Net of Deception | 204 |
| An Artificial Life is Unendurable | 211 |
| Chapter Six : Selection | 213 |
| Time to Act | 213 |
| Selection | 214 |
| Perfect Recognition | 215 |
| Ways of Spouse Selection | 216 |
| First Way : Seeking Advice | 216 |
| A Sage Guide | 216 |
| The Qualities of an Adviser | 217 |
| Second Way : Mediator and Introducer | 218 |
| Kinds of Mediators | 219 |
| Third Way : Investigation | 223 |
| Acceptance or Rejection Needs Logic | 224 |
| Ways of Investigation and How to Corss Them | 224 |
| Fourth Way : Sending a Messenger | 227 |
| Peculiarities of a Messenger | 228 |
| Fifth Way : Writing a Letter | 229 |
| Sixth Way : Photograph | 230 |
| Seventh Way : Direct Talk | 230 |
| Eighth Way : Seeing Each Other | 236 |
| Protecting the Girl's Dignity | 239 |
| Omentation | 240 |
| Kinds of Omenation | 240 |
| The Correct Use of Omentation | 242 |
| Fate! | |
| 247 | |
| Crossing the Slippery Road! Complete Caution at Every Step | 248 |
| Self-Sacrificial Marriage | 250 |
| Remorse Before Marriage | 254 |
| The Cause of This Remorse | 256 |
| Family Marriages | 268 |
| Children's Engagement | 270 |
| Chapter Seven : Engagement Period | 271 |
| The Need of an Engagement Period | 272 |
| The Value of the Engagement Period | 286 |
| The Length of the Engagement Period | 290 |
| Leave the Real Marriage for the Marriage Night | 309 |
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